Get over it!!

Calling all you persistent people out there:  GET OVER IT!!  Now I know that you "love them with all your heart," and you can stay that way for the rest of your life if you must.  I'm just saying that you need to move on (especially if they have).  Whining, griping, and complaining to the person that has just dumped you is not going to and never will work.  All you're going to do is annoy the living piss out of them until they get so sick of you that they explode all over you.  And when they do you will be left crying again and you will wonder why they were "so mean" to you.  I say, you brought it upon yourself.  You may say, "Well they're being a jerk and ignoring my calls and texts," but let me tell you that there is a reason for it.  Again: I know from experience.

You will look even more pathetic if you keep on bothering them after they have a new boyfriend/girlfriend.  They have someone new and you don't, so how do you look?  Exactly!  Move on and find someone else because they have and: IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!  If you persist even after they have someone else then you're likely to start some drama.  Maybe you do want to ruin any and all relationships they try to start.  Maybe that's your motive, but it shouldn't be.  No one, I repeat NO ONE likes a person who starts drama.  It's irritating and people will hate you for it.  (I know a few of these people myself)  Trying to start fights and things will not make you any less pathetic or them want you any more.  That's just not how it works.

You will make the situation worse by trying to "talk to them about something," especially after them (and all their friends) tell you to go away and stop trying.  They don't want to get back together with you, you need to understand that.  They're going to continue to ignore you.  I promise.  You should listen the first time and quit making yourself look like a fool.  If their done with you, then they're done with you and nothing you say is going to change their mind.  I promise.  Been there, done that.  But you say, "I can't live without them and they're the love of my life," blah blah snore.  I'm most positive you are one of those people who will find someone else in a couple months who's "the love of your life."  Then you'll forget all about the person you're stuck on at the moment.  Trust me.